In a heartfelt conversation, India Hicks, an interior designer and author, reflects on her life, family, and the recent loss of her mother, Lady Pamela Hicks. This article delves into the unique perspective Hicks offers on hosting, entertaining, and the passing of an era.
A Tribute to an Extraordinary Generation
India Hicks, at 58, is navigating the grief of losing her mother, who lived an impressive 97 years. This generation, she notes, is one of resilience and simplicity. "They lived through a war and were so much tougher than us and much less spoilt. There's so much to admire in them," she says. This sentiment sets the tone for a deeper exploration of Hicks' values and lifestyle.
The Art of Entertaining
Hicks' upcoming book, "Entertaining: with a Side of Chaos," showcases her approach to hosting. It's a departure from the perfection-oriented guide she published seven years ago. Instead, she emphasizes the importance of creating a welcoming atmosphere, suggesting practical tips like takeout options and potluck contributions. "It doesn't matter if it's perfect; it's about creating a lovely feeling," she asserts.
A Legacy of Design and Humor
Hicks' unique perspective on design and hosting is a blend of her parents' influences. Her mother's formal background and respect for mealtimes, coupled with her father, David Hicks', dramatic and flamboyant style, have shaped her approach. The book features stunning tablescapes, a testament to her father's legacy, and Hicks' ability to create dramatic, yet welcoming, environments.
Chaos and Comedy
The 'side of chaos' in the book's title is a nod to the unpredictable nature of life with pets and a large family. Hicks shares humorous anecdotes, like the cat food pâté prank and the dachshund's culinary adventure, showcasing her family's sense of humor. These light-hearted moments provide a contrast to the more serious aspects of her life.
A Serious Side to Life
Beyond entertaining, Hicks leads a life of purpose. As a patron of the King's Trust and a board director of Global Empowerment Mission, she recognizes her privileged position and the responsibility that comes with it. Her work and her family's royal connections provide a unique perspective on life and its responsibilities.
A Legacy of Memories
Hicks' memories of royal occasions and her mother's presence are poignant. From the wedding cake memento to the scent of floral tributes at Queen Elizabeth II's funeral, these moments highlight the impact of small, personal touches. Hicks' own approach to hosting and the dramatic tablescapes in her book are a continuation of this legacy, creating indelible memories for her guests.
Conclusion
India Hicks' book and her reflections offer a unique blend of personal insight, design inspiration, and a tribute to a generation. It's a reminder that, in these troubled times, creating moments of beauty and lightheartedness is a valuable antidote. As she puts it, "I like that I am publishing something that's a little light and fluffy." A fitting tribute to a life well-lived and a generation admired.
